Reverse Karen


Use of higher Authority

  • buying car
  • negotiate price
  • salesperson “needs to” ask the boss
  • boss said no
  • higher price

How to use it yourself

  • you need the approval of your “business partner”
    • can be called/discussed with
    • can be consulted between visits
  • can also be added to written contracts
  • business partner can also be your cat


Third Party - Why i

  • mediators
    • strengthen relationships
    • better outcomes
  • consultants
    • logical problem solving
    • impartial third party

Third Party - Why ii

  • arbitrators
    • can dictate an outcome
    • always a settlement
  • conciliators
    • enhances communication

Third Party - When

  • emotional or stressful environment
  • lack of expertise
  • too much ego
  • high motivation
  • backup tactic